Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Relieved and Thankful
I was glad that THGGM was not working and was able to drive me.
I did not have a good feeling about this one. In fact I cannot remember the last time something has upset me so. It's not even unusual for me to have the diagnostic kind of mammogram, and I've had breast surgery in the past. None of that bothered me much.
But, I am happy to report that it was all good. One of the benefits of having the diagnostic type is that you get the report before you leave the building. I do so like that.
Now I must get to bed.
A lot of fun things are planned for the rest of those days off!
Be back soon...
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Tuesday, October 28, 2008
As Told By Pake
Pake allows things that I do not. Things like warm chocolate milk for no reason other than he asked for it. Jonge also asked for salty almonds and Pake immediately took him across the street to buy some. I know a little boy who is NOT going to be happy when Pake goes back to work.
Anyway.
Jonge decided that he would like to drink his warm chocolate milk in the living room. Pake inquired, "May I hold you while you drink it?"
Jonge responded with "You would LOVE to!"
Those two are something together.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Random Weekend Wrap Up
Friday I went with my dad and oldest sister to visit my mom. She was alert and happy. She can no longer be part of a conversation, but it's always good to see her enjoying the people around her.
Friday night THGGM and I went to a basketball game. Youngest Son's girlfriend plays for the Cornerstone Golden Eagles, who were playing a scrimmage against Calvin College. Have I mentioned that I LOVE basketball? I LOVE basketball. This might be because it is played INSIDE. And, Cornerstone won. I love that too.
Saturday. It was rainy and cool. I went with Daughter-in-law to the Fulton Street Farmer's Market in the morning. I also LOVE being outside in the fall. Rain and cold don't bother me - unless one is required to sit still, as in watching a soccer game. It wasn't too bad, as long as one could dodge sudden dumps of cold water falling off of tarps. My purchases were two butternut squash, one small pumpkin, concord grapes, bartlett pears and a gallon of the best apple cider.
The rest of the morning and afternoon were filled with the usual. Successful thrift shopping, successful hardware store shopping, and successful finishing up of projects around the house.
Jonge and Famke came to spend the night with us. That is always fun. Jonge was especially sweet and Famke was SO cuddly. Jonge is quite the conversationalist and Famke has begun stringing words together. I had several opportunities to catch them in conversations with each other. Jonge calls her "Cutie" now. Her name, and then "Cutie". I love it.
They slept all night long. I cannot tell you how fun it is to wake up to a faint whisper in my ear of "Where's Pake?". I love it that he whispers it so as not to wake up Cutie over there in her crib. Thankfully Cutie wakes up very happy, and shouts a happy "HI!" in our direction.
The rest of Sunday is a blur of change, dress, fed, play, nap, repeat.
Except for one incident which stands out clearly.
Famke Cutie has a little clue she gives out that it is time for a nap. She sucks on her pacifier and places her index finger firmly between her pacifier and her upper lip. In seconds, she will be asleep. But this afternoon,she moved her finger and her pacifier, put her hand on my check and said as clear as day, "I love you." She put everything else back in place and promptly fell asleep.
Famke Cutie, I love you, too.
It is now 11:45, and I declare this weekend to be officially over.
And it was very good.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Pre Empty Nest
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Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Playing Outside
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Sunday, October 19, 2008
October Family Pictures
Saturday, October 18, 2008
October Pictures
The good pictures are with Son-in-law, so as soon as I can I will post some.
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Friday, October 17, 2008
I Made It To Friday
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Thursday, October 16, 2008
My Love Affair with the Short Story
How I got to be 50 before that book was one written by Edith Wharton, I do not know. Perhaps because no one ever said to me, "Judy, you simply MUST read Edith Wharton." Possibly this is a direct result of hobnobbing with the under three crowd, which I so willing do.
Edith Wharton could WRITE. I can't say that the actual story is what I find so enjoyable, it is the way she captures her characters, and thereby captures me, her reader. She handles words in much the same way Seurat did dots. Remove just one, and a gaping hole would appear. Some would say the following paragraph needs the help of an editors red pen. But, I could not find one word that wasn't deftly placed.
I think this may be the most perfect paragraph ever written.
It comes from the short story, "The Pelican", which tells of the widowed Mrs. Amyot who gives lectures to support her son.
Mrs. Amyot was as pretty as ever, and there was the same curious discrepancy between the freshness of her aspect and the staleness of her theme, but something was gone of the blushing unsteadiness with which she had fired her first random shots at Greek art. It was not that the shots were less uncertain, but that she now had an air of assuming that, for her purpose, the bull's-eye was everywhere, so that there was no need to be flustered in taking aim. This assurance had so facilitated the flow of her eloquence that she seemed to be performing a trick analogous to that of the conjurer who pulls hundreds of yards of white paper out of his mouth. From a large assortment of stock adjectives she chose, with unerring deftness and rapidity, the one that taste and discrimination would most surely have rejected, fitting out her subject with a whole wardrobe of slop-shop epithets irrelevant in cut and size. To the invaluable knack of not disturbing the association of ideas in her audience, she added the gift of what may be called a confidential manner - so that her fluent generalizations about Goethe and his place in literature (the lecture was, of course, manufactured out of Lewes's book) had the flavor of personal experience, of views sympathetically exchanged with her audience on the best way of knitting children's socks, or of putting up preserves for the winter. It was, I am sure, to this personal accent - the moral equivalent of her dimple - that Mrs. Amyot owed her prodigious, her irrational success. It was her art of transposing secondhand ideas into firsthand emotions that so endeared her to her feminine listeners.
And she sighs, turns out the light and goes to sleep, dreaming of turning secondhand ideas into firsthand...
...zzzzz...
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Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Rainy Daze
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Running in the Rain
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Tuesday, October 14, 2008
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Monday, October 13, 2008
Four Things Meme
This time I found it at Karen's blog, http://www.overbackyardfence.blogspot.com/
FOUR PLACES I go over and over:
1. Wisconsin in the fall
2. Traverse City in the spring
3. Grand Haven in the summer
4. Under a warm quilt in the winter
FOUR PEOPLE who email me regularly
1. My oldest sister
2. My older sister
3. THGGM (usually just to say "i'm on my way home, make coffee")
4. My blog commenters and other regular readers
FOUR of my FAVORITE PLACES to EAT
1. Arnie's - for the scandinavian shuffle
2. Hunan - for chicken with vegetables
3. Brann's - for steak (bogo with coupon!)
4. Florentines - for pizza
FOUR PLACES I'd rather be right now
1. Antique shopping in Wisconsin
2. Walking in the woods among golden-leafed trees
3. Napping with Famke (which is what i would normally be doing at this time)
4. Right here. I love to be at home.
FOUR TV SHOWS I could watch over and over
1. Decorating Cents
2. Signing Time
3. The Office
4. Frasier Reruns
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Sunday, October 12, 2008
Forgetful Me

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Saturday, October 11, 2008
Happy Birthday Daughter
Let's see..,
I believe I am sitting on the channel that connects Lake Macatawa to Lake Michigan.
Now let's jump ahead twenty-six years.
That's Daughter with her daughter.
We are all sort of like marushka dolls, aren't we?
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How We Survived Saturday
Me and My Great Ideas
It did actually seem like it was working, until tonight.
I'm going to just chalk it up to THGGM and I being tired. But, by the time we had finished supper, there was a cat eating chicken off the kitchen table (this is NOT allowed).
Famke had a full diaper (as she did during breakfast AND lunch also) and no longer wanted to sit.
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Friday, October 10, 2008
More Friday Family Fun Night

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Friday Family Fun Night

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Thursday, October 09, 2008
More of the Same
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Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Random Thoughts for a Tuesday Morning
Oh. And the four medical-related phone calls I need to make. I hate those even more than stacks of teetering dirty dishes.
I have finished reading Willa Cather's "Song of the Lark". It was SOOOO good. I'm glad I did not let what I read on Wikipedia stop me, as I thought twice about reading it after knowing what it was about. I shall be shopping around for "My Antonia". I thought I had it, but do not.
So, after also enjoying Edith Wharton's "Ethan Frome", I've moved on to a book of her short stories. I so enjoy short stories.
Again, I must ask you, have you read Theodore Dreiser's "The Old Neighborhood" yet? This is my all time favorite. Like any good story, this one will haunt you. You will think you are not thinking about it anymore, and suddenly out of nowhere you will find that you still are - and always will be - thinking about it. And it IS a short story, so go find a copy and read it. Because I said so, and really, I ask for so little...
This morning my dad told me that he has gained a few pounds this month. He must NEVER gain pounds. He also commented that he is a bit more short of breath. Just a bit. Then, he confessed to eating those roast beef sandwiches from Arby's. Arghhh. What to do.., she says as her diabetic hand reaches for the cinnamon roll she made to prove that she can actually make cinnamon rolls that RISE correctly. (now she leans over to pick up that apple that hasn't fallen far from that tree...) Cinnamon HAS been purported to lower blood sugar, you know.
I started a list of the projects I have around here that need finishing. The list was SO long that I became depressed and realized that I have a disease that causes me to be seduced into starting new projects and then not finishing them. For the record, I DID throw away all of those creamer cartons I was saving to make a lighted Christmas village with. But, when I opened the drawer to file away my incomplete list of incomplete projects, I found another incomplete project. Sometimes I think my only problem is that I am overwhelmed with the overwhelming list of things I want to do...
...but then, I throw my head back and laugh a cackling sort of crazy laugh. Oh, yeah. That's ALL that's wrong with me.
THGGM is doing a bit better than I am finishing his incomplete projects. Saturday he painted two ceilings and installed one new light fixture. It looks great, too. Still, he did end up being shorted the proper pieces for the light fixture and had to rig up something, so, I'm not ever going to stand under it. He says it will hold, but I remember just a few too many times he said something would be just fine the way it was, and then...well...I remember a certain blue toilet we had two decades ago...
Actually, he has become quite handy over the years. I should not paint an ill picture of him. Because, well, while he was successfully installing and painting things, I was creating those failed cinnamon rolls.
I did manage to get in a quick trip to the thrift store. I'll have to update my SimplyThrift blog too, I guess. I found a jacket for Jonge (i am planning to set the heat very low this winter) a Walt Whitman poetry book for children (me. i'm the child i bought it for), a 25 cent baggie with a plastic lion, horse and treasure box, (for jonge and famke) and a yard of fabric for the rice bags I've been making. This means I've $1.50 remaining from my $5.00 budget for half price book day at the other thrift store.
Oh. And I just found two more fabulous ideas that I must get to right away. One of the ideas is for two different ways to make two totally different light boxes. I'll let you know how that goes. The other is for felt coasters. Couldn't be simpler. Don't think I could fail at this one. But then, one just never knows. I've failed at many simple things.
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Sunday, October 05, 2008
Birthday Celebration!
The Birthday Boy (thggm) and the Birthday Girl (daughter) seemed to have a wonderful time.
We had fresh fruit, two kinds of quich, cheesy hashbrowns and dense cinnamon rolls.
I feel really bad and extremely tired over those cinnamon rolls. They tasted just fine, but looked like the kind you pop out of a can.
The children gifted their father with a gift card to Barnes and Noble - thrilled are they that their father now reads books - and a leaf blower. Jonge wanted to get him a baby lion. He insisted that is what Pake wanted.
Also, when asked to stop doing something, Jonge responded with, "I can't." Honesty like that is really hard to come by.
I was able to squeeze in a short nap with the ever-cuddly Famke.
Except for those pesky unrisen cinnamon rolls - which were supposed to double as the birthday cake - it was a very nice celebration.
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A Meme from Living On Grace
1. Love. Of course, how could one not love love.
2. Lake Michigan. So beautiful, every season.
3. Leaves. Especially in the fall.
4. Laughing. Lots and lots of laughing.
5. Lilacs. Oh, they smell so wonderful.
6. Longfellow, Henry W. "I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day", my favorite poem.
7. Listening. Shhh. I'm listening. Love to do that.
8. Loyalty. How rare is this. And, how necessary.
9. Learning. Ahhh. Learning.
10. Life. I can't seem to live without it.
11. Living on Grace, Pat's blog. http://www.livingongrace.blogspot.com/ I just HAD to add a number eleven. Because I do love Pat's blog. And Pat. She's good people.
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Just So I'll Remember In the Morning
It is 12:55 am.
I am waiting for my cinnamon rolls to rise.
Then, I have to half-bake them.
Oh, dear.
I started out with plenty of time.
But they REFUSED to rise!
Where do I get these crazy notions that seem so simple when I am thinking them?
(um, well, they DO smell good!)
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Friday, October 03, 2008
Fall Friday
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Wednesday, October 01, 2008
Busy Wednesday
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