Sunday, September 30, 2007
A Gift

Saturday, September 29, 2007
The Twins
They are both 80 now, and suffering from Alzheimer's. 
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re:LAX
I'm Home

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Friday, September 28, 2007
You Simply MUST Read This
She Suffered From Severe Weirdness, Which In the End, Took Her
Yet. I took the time to read the obituaries.
In the past, I have done this in a very obsessive compulsive manner. Now, I read them on line at Mlive.com.
But unless one's obituary appears in the paper on Sunday or Wednesday I won't know about it. Please, if you plan to die on a different day, could you let me know?
So today, my busy Friday, while I wait for machines to come to their conclusions, I am perusing the Sunday and Wednesday obituaries. Not necessarily this past Sunday or Wednesday's either.
This is a note to my family.
PLEASE do not list whatever pets I have at the time of my demise as survivors. I find that weird. One has to PAY for every word. When I would put a section of paper under any pet I've ever had, they did not pause to READ it anyway. They used it for other things.
Also, if sometime before I die I were, let's say to finally do something wonderful, PLEASE do not list it. I'm not planning to do anything wonderful, but IF I were to, I would not want the world to know about it. Let's let it be our little secret.
Please list my grandchildren by name, and my great grandchildren also. I'll start a little fund to pay for it. But, if THGGM dips into that fund before I die (would it be too much to hope we will be beyond pop can returns by then?) it could be included as 'in lieu of flowers'. Although, I do like flowers, rather much.
Now, were your father to go before me, and I do not show up to the funeral it is not because I have a migraine or am to agoraphobic to attend. It is because I ran out of gas. Could someone come get me before the final hymn is sung? I'd want to see him one last time, laying down while not snoring.
Before the lid is shut upon me, could someone grab a scissors and cut that perfectly good lining out of my casket? I won't be needing it, and it is GOOD material (unless, of course, you skimped on the casket, which is fine and in which case you can ignore this.) There are many useful things one could do with that fabric. Putting it in the ground would just ruin it. I have some tea set aside with which to dye it.
And now, my last request in THIS post (i do so plan to update this.) is, if I die of something really gross, let's just keep that between us too. Don't put it in the obituary. No one needs to know.
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Thursday, September 27, 2007
Thursday...

Labels: famke = girl - jonge = boy, my corner of the world
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Why I Like Kathleen Norris
"When last I was home and attending church, the children's choir sang "Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam," a song I remember singing as a child. I suppose I loved it then. What made their song so marvelous in the context of our worship that day was that it was followed by a reading from Jeremiah 14 that made it clear that God did not
want Jeremiah for a sunbeam. Gifts differing, I suppose." - Kathleen Norris, "The Cloister Walk" p. 133
Labels: reading
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Acorn, Oak Tree, Kitchen Table


Today I collected acorns.
Why buy fall decore when it grows on trees?
It was breezy. Every time the wind blew, acorns rained down. It made a lovely sound on the metal slide we were playing on. Not so lovely when they hit us on the head.
My kitchen table was once contained in an acorn. Truly something remarkable to think about.
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The Old Man and The Sea

Labels: famke = girl - jonge = boy, The Husband God Gave Me
Pake and Jonge At Lake Michigan
Christmas Is In Three Months!


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Monday, September 24, 2007
Monday Funday, Part II
I'm crazy about the images in this book. These are the kids I grew up with. Well. Not actually THESE kids, as Dick and Jane had evolved a bit from the 40's to the 60's. No longer was Baby nameless, she had become Sally by then.



Our first stop was going to be Target, but Jonge and Famke live very close and Pake claimed that the car just turned in there on it's own.

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Monday Funday
To make up for that harried weekend, THGGM has today off.
We slept in.
He 'til 7:00, me 'til 7:30.
We went to breakfast at 8:00.
Then it was off to grocery shopping. The store seemed filled with mother's of preschoolers who had apparently just dropped everybody else off at school. It was unhurried and delightful.
It cost too much.
We came home. Me, to fill the pantry, THGGM to tend to some work that needed doing.
Next we were off again. To 'Somewhere in Thyme' our new favorite antique mall. I bought a 'Dick and Jane' book to rip apart and a cedar chest sample to make into a shadow box.
Lunch was had at 'Rainbow Grill'. THGGM and I used to eat there more often when he had Wednesday's off. Monday is potato soup day, so it was extra special.
He also went to the hardware store while I shopped at Michael's. I bought a second small scrapbook to make another ABC book, having remembered that I now have TWO grandchildren. Today they were 40% off (the scrapbooks). I also bought some 'instant age' varnish. Because I look too young for my age? Hardly. To smear on THGGM whilst he sleeps? Maybe. I cannot remember why I wanted it, but I did remember that I did. I wanted to by instant papier mache, but I didn't have a coupon, and it wasn't on sale. And, it looked exactly like dryer lint to me, which is hard to spend money on.
THGGM finished his project, which looks better than I had imagined. He isn't totally satisfied with it though, so I won't post any pictures.
Next, if I have my way, we are off to Target to pick up a CD. I want the Rod Stewart one that was playing at the reception we attended last weekend. It was beautiful. And, I never would have thought myself a Rod Stewart fan.
In the car after lunch, THGGM was belting out "All I need is the air that I breathe, and to love you!". I informed him that I need a teensy bit more than that. Add lunch out and antique shopping, and I'm good to go.
Last week, while we were dressing for the wedding, I mentioned to THGGM that I thought I should go on "What Not to Wear". I am no fashion maven. I have only one 'going out' outfit, besides two black beaded dresses - one mother of the groom and one mother of the bride. I would be perfectly happy to spend my remaining days in comfortable jeans, a shirt and a denim vest with pockets. Pockets are important to me. He agreed. Then he added; "You should also go on 'What not to eat, What not to say, What not to do...'
Oooo. Do I have a show for him. "Who Not To Mess With".
It's still early. We can still do a lot more fun stuff tonight!
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Sunday, September 23, 2007
Can You Say "Peanut"?

Labels: famke = girl - jonge = boy
Saturday, September 22, 2007
First Day of Fall, and All
Today, I was the cinnamon roll maker for our Saturday morning family breakfast.
I woke up unable to use my left hand. I slept with my wrist splints on, hoping that would cure me over night. It did not.
THGGM graciously opened everything that I needed to have opened. It's easy to get help with the smell of warm cinnamon rolls filling the house. Setting them under the ceiling fan in the kitchen helped to get them noticed.
After a scrumptiously delightful breakfast, THGGM and I went to our favorite thrift store. He found a perfect little Ethan Allen lamp and a knitted baby sweater. I rounded up the usual suspects that always bring me joy. Stuff. Old books to read, including the Complete Adventures of the Borrowers, and The Cost of Discipleship. A flower press book, a clock book for Jonge and some jewelry to take apart rounded out my finds.
THGGM has to work this weekend. It is inventory time. So, I brought him to work so that I could have a car for getting me to work, to more shopping and to arrange my mom and dad's meds for the week.
After dropping THGGM off for work, inventory being something that he actually enjoys doing, I drove to Michael's to use my 50% off coupon before it expired. My new collection is photo storage boxes. They happened to be 2 for $3 this week. For me, it's all about the plain brown ones, so I can embellish them as I deem necessary. I also found a 6x6 photo album to make an ABC book for Jonge (okay. so by the time i actually do this he will be 16 and fluent in all things alphabet.)
I was planning to go directly to work, but instead stopped home to unload my goods. While there I listened to messages. I NEVER do this. I'm BAD at listening to messages. I do it, but usually at the end of the day. But, today, I was wondering if Daughter had called. So I listened to my voice mail.
There was only one. It was from my dad.
This is what he said:
"This is dad. I need help with your mom. Mom needs help."
I'd only been gone for an hour, so I looked at the time, and he had called just two minutes ago.
I jumped back into the car to make the short trip over. I kept running into road blocks.
When I arrived, he met me at the door.
Not an emergency, really.
My mom had taken a bath, and was unable to get out. Apparently, he had been trying for quite sometime, but she just could not get out.
My left arm was still just a dangling appendage and I only use my right one for typing and piano playing. Mom didn't need a typist or a song played for her, so I was no help at all. Except, of course, I provided moral support. Well. Actually, I laughed. That's because she said to me, "I bet you didn't think you'd be seeing THIS much of me this week." Um, no.
Since my dad had been unable to reach me, he did the only thing he could think to do. He called 911.
What does one do when someone is stuck in a bathtub? I could tell that nothing was wrong with my mom, except that she could not get up. Do you stand there and converse with them, or try to be reassuring from a distance? While pondering that, my mom said, "So. What are we doing for Christmas?" Really, mom. Do you want to talk about this, now? For someone with Alzheimer's who had missed their last two nights of medication she was rather clear-headed.
I, on the other hand (the other hand that isn't dangling uselessly), couldn't remember how to even conjure up a clear thought.
Soon two very strong women appeared and in no time at all had my mom seated comfortably on a dining room chair.
It was not long before she was clothed and in her right mind.
"Well. THAT was certainly embarrassing!" was her only comment about it.
After my dad had caught his breath, he left to go pick up some groceries.
I filled their medications for the week and life went on as usual. My mom and I sat at the table and discussed what we plan to do for Christmas. This is what we talk about the most, lately. I don't mind. It's a subject I enjoy.
I stayed around for awhile to make sure everyone was as okay as they can be, and then I went to work. The hum of a good vacuum is excellent therapy.
Back home, I picked up "The Cloister Walk" by Kathleen Norris and held it firmly in my good right hand.
Soon, Daughter arrived. Surrounded by the happy noise of Jonge and the adorable sideways smiles of Famke, order was restored to my topsy-turvy little world.
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Friday, September 21, 2007
Oh, How I Love This Girl!

Labels: famke = girl - jonge = boy
Famke At Six Weeks
She Whirls, She Twirls, She Spins...
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007
books, Books, and More BOOKS
I actually made it to 'cheap book day' at my second favorite thrift store. Lately, I've been purposely avoiding it, due to the fact that I have a few books already. Just a few. Like, not a whole bunch or anything.
Feeling rather happy with myself, I left with only three books (and a roll of textured, paintable wallpaper - for 99 cents!).
I bought a hardcover Kathleen Norris "The Cloister Walk" for only 25 cents. I'm already reading it. I thought I'd read it before, but it only seems oddly familiar.
And, for a mere 10 cents, a paperback about wanting what I have. I DO want what I have. That's why I bought what I have. But, it seemed to be about journaling so I spent the dime. Because I wanted what they had. And wasn't happy about not having it.
For another 25 cents I bought a 1926 book on elementary entomology called "How Insects Live". Fascinating stuff. I keep picking up cheap books to rip apart for decoupage, and then I get them home and LOVE them as books. The pages in this one would make lovely backgrounds for shadow boxes, etc. Fig. #29 - "May-flies about an electric lamp." is just too cool! Oh, and I learned that they are of the order 'Ephemerida' which means 'lasting but a day'. Helps one to understand why the paper bits I like to collect are called 'ephemera'.
Today I picked up where I left off in November of 2005 at LibraryThing. Do you have a LibraryThing thingy? If not, google LibraryThing and check it out. It's so simple, even I can do it. So far, I have 100 of my books on it. I haven't actually unpacked my books, and do not plan to until after Christmas, so I am just adding the ones that I find laying around. Umm. Yes. I do have a number of books unpacked. Just not the majority of them. And, I am sorting them in the garage so plan to weed out more as I go.
I did find it a bit odd that they do not have a catagory called 'Green Books'. Not books about sparing the environment, but books which have hardcovers of green. It seemed like a reasonable option, as I do have many books that I bought just because they are green. Although, I do not know why.
Labels: reading
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Could Hartz Mountain Make This for People?

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Famke Loves Her Uncles!
Monday, September 17, 2007
The Yard.

THGGM got a lot of exercise tonight. While we were eating supper, we noticed that the 'bookball' team was practicing. Jonge is all about the 'bookball' team! Tonight he saw them run. Of course, he had to run also. Pake was never TOO far behind.

They walk around the block whenever they get the chance. So far they have met quite a few neighbors.
Labels: new house
For Your Monday Viewing
So, here I will give you three. Three that I enjoy very much.
"Sallies Stack" is relatively new. In this blog, Sallie, who lives in my area, highlights a variety of interesting places to view. I'm enjoying this very much. You might also. You can find it at:
http://www.salliesstack.com/
I've mentioned this one before. My friend Melissa is multi-talented. If you follow the link to her site, then click down through her sidebar - well - it might take you an entire day to experience it all, but you would not be sorry! I spent some time this morning reading her entries on Madeleine L'Engle. Be sure to click on those.
http://www.thosenorthernskies.blogspot.com/
Another of my favorite places to go to get my creative juices flowing is Amy's site. Such beautiful things! Presently she is packing orders for 'Club Little House'. Also, be sure to scroll down a little until you see what she has done with her mantle. So cute!
http://www.inspireco.blogspot.com/
Labels: check this out
Sunday, September 16, 2007
The Offspring

Pake and His Little Famke
My Saturday
Fabulous thrift finds were aplenty. For under a dollar I was able to buy "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius. Now I have a collection of twelve.
I also bought, for 69 cents, this 'thing'. It has eight of the coolest Chinese figures on each of it's eight sides. I have plans for this! 
I liked that the bottom of it is was 'stamped'.
The 'Technic' book was 10 cents. I love the picture AND the color of the cover. It has great line drawings inside, which made it well worth the dime.
was only 50 cents. I found a few other bits and pieces of what-not. More books, little toys for Jonge, a snow suit for Famke. THGGM found a black cashmere sweater and a red corduroy Polo shirt. He also found a great glass bowl. But, I dropped in while bringing it into the house. It had a stand. We still have that.And, to finish up our day, we went to a wedding! Son-in-law's roommate from his time at Michigan Tech, Brennen, married the lovely Angela. The wedding and reception were beautiful.

We found something that we were looking for! A carved sign for over our bed which reads "Always Kiss Me Goodnight." Of course, I can't just hang it up plain, so I will embellish it a bit before it goes up. And, THGGM has a nasty cold, so, maybe I should add "Almost" to the sign.
Friday, September 14, 2007
Sticking People I Know to the Wall
THGGM, mostly-helpful man that he is (although, presently he is ill) heard somewhere that if I would stick wet newspaper to the wall and let it sit (he did not remember for how long, hence the label of 'mostly'-helpful) it would just roll right off.
Roll. Right. Off. It. Did. Not.
Have you gotten newspaper wet recently and held it up over your head? Newsprint is really gray water, which strives to seek it's own level by rolling down my arms and coating me in damp gray.
This, of course, is pleasant compared to what rolls down once the glue is eaten away by the pleasant smelling Downy mixture which is destroying the skin on my hands. Oh. And the dripping Downy water mixed with glue, tiny bits of wallpaper and wet newspaper makes the floor very slippery. But, you probably guessed that. I did not guess that. I experienced that.
Anyway. That wasn't the funny part.
The funny part was how as I lifted a wet piece of newspaper to stick on the wall, I noticed a 50th Anniversary announcement of some old friends of mine. Let's call them R and J. There they were, in the newspaper.
I hadn't thought of them in years. Years. Like, almost twenty years.
The newspaper-soaking-sticking-peeling went much faster while pleasant thoughts of a very unpleasant time in my life passed through my mind.
R and J were part of a class I went to on Monday nights for a few years. They were world-class-know-it-alls. Self-proclaimed answer people. But, their lives fell apart and knowing the answer was no longer enough.
Have you ever witnessed this happen to someone? It isn't pretty. I think it hurts worse to watch it happen to someone else than to actually have it happen to oneself.
R and J broke, like everyone else who lasted through that class. There's not a verse, a word, a minister, a church that can fix a person once they are broken.
Because, broken is the only way we are of any use to God.
If we aren't broken, what's inside has no way to get out.
We may have great plans, fabulous ideas, excellent agendas and the perfect program, but unless what we are pouring out to the people around us is the love of God being continually poured into us, we have nothing to give.
When I saw R and J's picture, that is what I thought of them. Love pouring out into a room full of people who could have cared less about what R and J thought they had to offer. Because the real stuff is so much better.
I learned something from them.
We don't get to choose what life throws at us. We don't get to choose how those we love respond to what gets thrown at them. But, we do get to choose how we respond.
Intelligence, knowledge, achievements, and willingness to be used have little to no lasting effect on the people around us.
Vulnerability (faith? - we cannot see it), brokenness (hope? - total healing hasn't taken place yet) and love are the three things R and J graced my life with. And the greatest of these?
Love.
Today I stuck a lot of pictures of engaged people, just married people and anniversary celebrators to my bathroom wall. I'm so thankful that I noticed R and J's picture. How fitting, that this month they celebrate that.
The Basement
Reminders
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Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Jonge
The big paper used to belong to Oldest Son, so there are some interesting works of art for Jonge to color on.
This one is a self portrait.
Wednesday
No one was injured, nothing but the towel was harmed.
Daughter entered the kitchen in time to see flames.
What shall we call this? THGGM has a 'senior moment'?
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Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Finding Time to Experiment
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Monday, September 10, 2007
My Mom
Of course, we went to the neighborhood thrift store, and as we were going in we met one of my cousins coming out! (Which, by the way, proves that more than just my diabetes is hereditary!)
Sunday, September 09, 2007
No Picture, So You Get A Thousand Words
Actually, we did not set out to go antique shopping. (no. we did not.)
I told THGGM that there was somewhere we HAD to go today. HAD to. He didn't want to and he didn't even know where I wanted to go. (he gave a few tours of our house today. must have been exhausting.)
It occurred to me a while back, in the middle of everyone's moving hither, thither and yon that I did not know where Youngest Son lived. Well, I knew APPROXIMATELY where, but not exactly. I knew if I went through East Town I'd gone to far. So, today I can now proclaim that I know where he lives. I could maybe even find it myself. It's a beautiful old house in Grand Rapids that is owned by his friend whom he has known since kindergarten. He lives there with two other roommates and various people who come and go. It looked relatively clean to, especially considering that he didn't know we were coming. (we did leave with a quilt that we had just been wondering where it had gone.)
Since we were out that way, we went to Gas Light Village and had an ice cream cone at Jersey Junction. Just like old times. Only, we are now old and fat. And I am diabetic. (and stupid, obviously.)
We had much going on today. It was a good day. I did take a minute to bring my book out on the front porch to finish the last two chapters of "Song of Years" by Bess Streeter Aldrich. I loved it. Loved it. It will go into the pile of books 'to be read again'. (although it will actually be in the 'green' bookcase...even though it's read, because it's green.)
After everything here settled down, I found myself with boundless energy. That happens to me only on brief occasions. Like, never. So, I ventured out into the garage to try to find my "Where Women Create" book. I didn't find it. But, I found a bag containing three things that I had bought while antique shopping MONTHS ago, and never unpacked. How fun is that? (that is very fun.)
Anyway, it was two pieces of blue and white. One a planter-like bowl with a windmill on it. I remember thinking how cool it will look with all of the similar pieces that I have holding paint brushes, colored pencils and markers. Somewhere. I do not know where they are, yet. And, a 'clove' spice jar with a lid. The third item is tiny 'occupied japan' piece of a girl playing an accordion. For the life of me, I cannot remember for what reason I bought this! Maybe, because it reminded me of my favorite definition of an optimist. (an accordion player who wears a beeper.)
So, it is late, but I am heading back out into the garage to look around for that book about women. Who create. Who create in much nicer surroundings than I do. I hope I find it, if not, I am sure to find something I've been looking for. (my mind?)
Well. Maybe I should have posted a picture instead. I didn't get a thousand words. (lucky you.)
And tonight, I should sleep better, knowing now where my baby lives. (or, maybe not. he might be cold since we took the quilt.)
Saturday, September 08, 2007
Well, Guess What I Did Today?
Look what I found! A lovely 'travel bag' which looks perfect for Famke to someday carry her treasures back and forth to Beppe's house.
And, flash cards with pictures in a vintage-y manilla color, a set of 'antique' repro playing cards, three old (early 1990's) Victoria magazines, a Hansel and Gretel Little Golden Book illustrated by Eloise Wilkins - I do find this story to be horrifying for small children, so the picture of the witch fattening up Hansel in a cage will NOT be something I will be reading with Jonge for quite sometime. What was wrong with those Grimm brothers anyway?
Labels: thrift and antique shopping
Friday, September 07, 2007
A Delightful Package Arrived!
A box! Melissa makes the coolest boxes from old record album covers. I used to have this album!
This picture is of one of the songs on the back. I sang the first verse to my mom, who responded by singing the second verse without any prompting. I asked her how she could remember that - after all - I was a child a VERY long time ago. She said that you just never forget songs.
A Thousand Words
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
"Moe Book!"
Jonge loves to have his "At on",
Loves the "kitty mooooaaaaw".
And, loves "moe book".
For some unknown to me reason, yesterday was 'look at the books upside down day'.
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Primer, Undercoat, Basecoat, Topcoat, Sealer
So, I buy the fabulous yellow stuff from Clinique and divvy up the free stuff.
Then, off I go to paint my face.
I'm thinking of trying that grass-growing-miracle-stuff-for-lawns on my head. If it can grow on concrete, I'm sure it could grow just fine on this head of mine.
So.., what's YOUR splurge item?
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More Thrifty Goodness
The lamp!
I walked passed it, as it had a too tall awkward hurricane in it.
THGGM, ever the visionary, knew that I had a too small hurricane in my thrifted bedside lamp.
So, he bought it, swapped out the hurricanes, and, we now have two very nice looking lamps for next to no cost.
Labels: new house
Monday, September 03, 2007
Think Pink. And White.
Labels: new house
It Happened One Saturday...
Sheila's Shower
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