Friday, August 29, 2008
It Is Friday
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
No Title Night
Right up until I took Jonge and Famke outside to smell flowers and look for bees.
I got one of those horrible eye migraines.
Thankfully, they happily walked back into the house with me. Sometimes, they do not want to come in, and act their ages about it.
This time, you would have thought they had been handed a script.
We cuddled up together on the couch and read Sandra Boynton books. They know those, so not much is required of me.
I must look AWFUL, as THGGM has been most kind and helpful all evening.
Oh, what am I saying, he is always kind and helpful.
(oh, no. might that be because i always look awful? no energy left to think on that tonight.)
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
I Know I Know
THGGM is playing Bach's Adagio and I might just have a breakdown. That music is SO sad. He loves it, it calms him. Apparently, Bach is who the Dutch were listening to just before the German invasion. This CALMED them? I'm trying to get "It's a Small World After All" stuck in my head just so I can cope.
Tonight THGGM and I were reading in the backyard. It is just SO nice back there. We are so close to a busy intersection yet geese fly overhead, woodchucks chuck wood - or whatever it is they do, toads hop around and the neighborhood children make happy sounds. Our neighbor was playing the piano, beautifully. It was all going so well. Youngest Son even popped in after his soccer coaching duties were completed at the school down the street. THGGM made us strawberry shortcake. YUM. I was reading a short story by Willa Cather (stories that end in suicides should begin with a warning) because I liked her comments on "The Awakening". THGGM was reading C.S. Lewis' "The Great Divorce". It COULD have been a perfect night.
Except for a very large bat, I'm sure it was a vampire bat, flew at my head. I do not like bats. At least it was OUTSIDE.
Tonight I used my potholder loom, cotton loops and Klutz book (http://www.simplythrift.blogspot.com/) to weave a potholder. This is NOT a children's craft! So I only paid $1.50. If I were to sell that potholder I'd want to put at least $20 on it, for all of the duress it caused me. Yes, I remember making them as a child. Making them again reminded me that it wasn't all fun and games then either.
I learned a great new word reading "The Awakening". Befurbelowed. Meaning, you ask? Dressed, adorned, especially in petticoats or flounces. Befurbelowed. Say it with me. Befurbelowed. I like how it rolls off the tongue, and is perfectly useless in my life.
My dad reminded me today why old people do not need Facebook, MySpace or Classmates. They have the board at the entry to nursing homes. It's surprising how many old friends he finds that way. He met one again yesterday. Quite thankfully, his friends have only been there for rehab. But, it's a nice way for them to catch up.
Fun Times
I am forever on a hunt for fun games with stuff I have around the house. This one has the added benefit that it can help with speech impediments. I am not exactly sure how this works. Do I blow through the straw just before I have to give a speech, or what?
Anyway, Jonge has a small amount of difficulty with a few sounds. He comes by this honestly.
And, the game is great fun. Notice that I win this round.
The green stuff flying around are small bits of the feather boa Jonge carries around for comfort. He calls it his 'pink' because the first one came off of the handle of a gift bag Famke received, and it was pink.
This works with cotton balls too, if you happen to be out of green pinks!
If Jonge seems calm, he has a fever in this video, taken yesterday. Today his throat has developed red spots.
(before you come for dinner, i will scrub down the table)
If I Could Save Clowns in a Bottle
Monday, August 25, 2008
Friday, August 22, 2008
Domestic Happiness

Today I came upon another William Cowper (pronounced Cooper, for those who are interested in things like that) quote:
"Domestic happiness, thou only bliss
Of Paradise that has survived the fall!"
The pretty cup and saucer are from my mom's first set of 'good' dishes.
It seems that she out grew them, as I cannot really remember her ever using them. She gave me this cup and saucer shortly after THGGM and I married. I had a 'cup and saucer' shelf I was working to fill up with old dishes, and she handed me these. By then she had other 'good' china.
In my forays into antique and thrift shops, I am always looking for more. I came pretty close about 15 years ago, but the pattern was not quite the same. It was a cardboard box of odds and ends, many that were chipped, cracked and downright broken. The whole box was marked $25.00. That large man who drives me places would not let me buy them. Something about us needing to eat that week.
I cannot explain it, but I get a happy sort of feeling of being in the kitchen at the house I grew up in whenever I look at these. One of those 'feelings' when everything seems to be cast in a golden light (bliss?).
My mom thought they were ordinary, but if they were, why am I having such a hard time finding them?
Ah, domestic happiness...
...you elude me.
You Can Thank Me Later

Thursday, August 21, 2008
Two Boys
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
You Never Know
I don't seem to have the horribly way-too-busy-life stress so many people seem to have, but like water, stress seeks it's own level.
Understandably, it is stressful to watch my mom spiral downward. No, she isn't doing terribly, but it is becoming more difficult for her to speak. Sunday she had a very good day. Yesterday when my dad and I went to visit we were able to attend the hymn sing with her. Physically she looks very healthy. But, it's still a very sad disease to witness.
Just going to a nursing home is stressful to me. I have to work up the strength to go. Although it seems weird to say it, I'm glad that my mom isn't all that aware of her surroundings. She is always happy to see us, but except for my dad, we are all now "Grace" who is her twin sister who also has Alzheimer's. Thankfully, she is always happy to see 'her Grace'. Which really sounds funny, when you think about it. Ironically, when the aid asked me yesterday if I was 'her Grace', she did not curtsy.
My dad somehow joined something again that we have to get him out of. I think he has finally been convinced to not answer calls from UNKNOWN sources. And to think that he was always the one who told us to beware of things that sound to good to be true. And, then the 'gift' he was to recieve for joining this 'whatever' was stolen from his mailbox.
And, darling Jonge is not recovering as quickly from his mystery illness as we had hoped. The fever is gone, but in it's place is an extremely moody 2 1/2 year old. He will be just fine and sweet and helpful and adorable then SUDDENLY - and I do mean SUDDENLY - something will bother him severely and he becomes inconsolable. This is not behaviour he has ever exhibited, which has left his mommy and me totally bewildered.
Daughter is always a good source of 'interesting people' stories. Monday she had two very unusual customers. She was working the lunch shift when a strange guy came in. He had what she said could only be described as a 'homeless' look about him. Awhile later, a woman came in who also fit that description. Although, she said this woman looked like she was maybe 'not quite the full quid' or else a wee bit drunk. This is really a dilemma for people who work in restaurants. It's not considered polite to ask to smell someone's breath. So, Daughter stressed about this a bit and called her boss to give an assessment of the situation.
To make a long story shorter, the homeless looking man bought a beer for the homeless looking woman. Then, he admitted to Daughter that he was not able to drive home and could she call him a cab, which she very happily did. The homeless looking woman then asked the homeless looking man if she could share his cab.
He replied with a firm "No".
Daughter called another cab.
When the homeless looking man left he handed Daughter a note.
On it was scrawled this message.
"She mitt [sic] be Jesus. You never know."
Daughter's response - although he wasn't there anymore to hear it - was:
"Well if she WAS Jesus, YOU just bought her a beer, and then REFUSED to share your cab with her! So write yourself a note!"
I have no idea what this has to do with the stress in my life, except maybe that it gave me a good laugh and relieved some of it.
Not that I think that it's funny to laugh at people more unfortunate than oneself, but it is always very amusing to watch Daughter act out scenes from her incredibly interesting life.
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
On Tuesday Morning, Remembering Monday Morning
Anyway, back to mornings being quiet here, for now. Soon school will begin and noise will come earlier to my little world. I love to sit on my porch and watch the parents come around our corner to drop off high school students, and think, 'hey, that used to me!'. Then, I return to sipping my coffee and flipping through my magazine. Well. Actually, once I did that.
Yesterday in the hours before Jonge and Famke arrived I was perched on the end of my squeaky chair trying to figure out how to add to my sidebar this great quote that I found. Why things cannot work the same from blog to blog I shall never understand (don't try to tell me, i really do not care all that much). I still cannot get it to work.
It's a fabulous quote from a poem by William Cowper, but of course I could not just add the quote without learning about the poem it came from, and it's context. No one hates things taken out of context more than I.
So, I read the great Cowper poem about John Gilpin, and still felt the quote was worthy of a spot in my sidebar, in my blog read by Two everyday. www.simplythrift.blogspot.com. One of them being me. The other, ME (no, really ME is someone other than me).
The name William Cowper did seem familiar to me, but I did not want to quote from someone who was perchance extremely evil or something, so I continued on in my quest to find out more about this person who died in 1800.
It never surprises me to find poets who have bouts of serious depression. Actually, it never surprises me to find ANYONE who has bouts of serious depression. I have bouts about that. Doubts too, but mostly bouts (what's that about?).
And, yes. Cowper falls into that category. Armed with the fact that he was human like the rest of us, I continued on in my googlious search on Cowper.
Oh, William Cowper, I DO know you! You wrote one of my favorite hymns (i'm not talking to the dead here, just adding emphasis).
"There Is a Fountain Filled with Blood". I love that hymn. It even has a verse I'd not heard before.
One of the side effects of my personality is that I cannot stop researching things. I know many things now about William Cowper, things that I bet he wished were never going to be known. But, for someone like me 'those things' help me to appreciated his poetry even more. Especially how "There Is a Fountain Filled with Blood" was written after a time of immense pain.
Yet, he could still write a nice little quote like this:
"Though on pleasure she was bent, she had a frugal mind." - William Cowper.
Monday, August 18, 2008
And the Angel of the Day Award Goes To
Monday!
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Sweet Dreams
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Oh Saturday, You Pass Too Quickly

Friday, August 15, 2008
A Good Day for Snuggling
These pictures are from Famke's birthday party on Sunday, but we DID swing today, too.
Jonge is still sick with the very high fever, but when it drops he likes to go outside and swing. I believe that the breeze helps.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
More Change of Plans
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
My Plans Changed
Having Too Much Fun

Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Smack-Dab In Front
I've also chased after many thing, CERTAIN that I must pursue them. Only to find after my conquests were completed that I was woefully negligent about what really needed my attention.
I think about this often when faced with the story of the Good Samaritan.
Priests and Levites were busy people. They had a calling on their lives. Places to go, people to see, important things to do. All good things, I'm sure.
Samaritans? Nobody cared much for them.
Most assuredly, Samaritans were not the 'target group', 'demographic' or 'unreached people of the week' in their day. And who knows about the poor guy on the side of the road.
What I love about the parable of the Good Samaritan is how it is Jesus who told this story. Not the Samaritan.
Is this quite possibly because, had the Samaritan told the story, it would have lost some of its inherent beauty? Would the humility have been lost? Or, was it so common in his life that it really did not seem like an event to record for all time and eternity?
I know, I know. Parables are tales of the Kingdom. Maybe it never REALLY happened. But even if the titles, occupations and ethnicities were changed, for Jesus to tell this story, it is true and it did happen. Still happens everyday, I am quite sure.
I also know that this story is read, preached about, talked about and retold in so many forms that there isn't much left to say about it today.
Except for maybe this one thing.
That Samaritan? He must have realized that at one time he was the injured man on the side of the road. The Priest and Levite? Hmmm. Much to ponder there.
So go get your neighbor. Yes. That one right in front of you. Now, all you need to do is give her what you were given.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Stir Together One Tired Famke, One Binky-less Jonge, and One Old Beppe
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Famkes First Birthday Party
While Thrift Shopping...
After I brought them home, I remembered a pink depression glass bowl filled with shells. Oh, shells. I do love those, too. Since I never go to beaches with shells, I cannot remember where I got them, but, do they not look absolutely wonderful as accessories?
Friday, August 08, 2008
Blue Sky with a Side of Fluffy White Clouds
Thursday, August 07, 2008
It Wasn't Supposed to Be Like This
No. It was not. Today I had plans to catch up on those jobs I find difficult if not impossible to do with the two original 'Little People' at my side. 

Once I could move around, I still was hesitant to run up and down steps and necessary things like that, so I sat myself down and made some more "Borrowers".

Your Questions Answered
Wednesday, August 06, 2008
The Original Too Too Cute Little People
Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Too Too Cute
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Today was "Dad Date Day". I hope dad has as much fun as I do. For him, it also means a doctor's appointment. This time to the cornea transplant doctor who saw everything that he had done, and behold, it was very good. 

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